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As caregivers, physicians, nurses, friends and families, we should always be searching for ways to support and to respect our elders “with the Compassion of Christ”. We can easily reference bibical principles to af rm revering our elders.
Leviticus 19:32 “We are to stand up before the gray head and honor the face of an old man, and you shall fear your God: I am the Lord.”
Exodus 20:12 says, “Honor your Father and your Mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.”
Drawing from our faith and belief, we should be a re ection of Christ’s love and do so with our actions. With that said, there are a variety of ways in which we can offer ourselves.
Offer to provide support: Sometimes it’s just some kind of support with simple day-to-day tasks: reading their mail; taking them outside for sunshine and fresh air; offering a cool drink; cutting up some food; moving an obstacle that may be in their way.
So many little things that speak volumes to our elders.Let them know you are a part of their lives and that you care and love them.
Let’s not assume what the person needs or wants. Always ask before providing help. If you don’t, the person may feel that you think they’re incompetent or don’t respect their abilities.
Take on some responsibilities that you can. You might not be able to provide a great deal, but sometimes it’s the small gestures that you care or are aware they may need some assistance.
Help them stay healthy as possible. Make sure they are eating and getting some exercise. Visit them regularly and go for a walk outside with them, talk to them on the phone. Bring a treat for them, check with facility nurse managers for suggestions.
Respect their autonomy. Losing the ability to take care of oneself can be tough and sometimes embarrassing. Make sure they know you respect and cherish them. Always let them know if there’s anything you need. I will be happy to help, but I can respect that you like to do things on your own. SLOW DOWN....as we age, people process things and move more slowly. Let them set the pace.
It’s a proven fact in our society that we often see our elders pushed to the back and are easily forgotten; that is why we should be sure to remember them and help them. Some of our residents on campus have outlived spouses, children, and families.
St. Dominic Village is the home for so many people and we must preserve, protect and
respect with dignity their golden years of life. We are truly grateful to our staff, families and friends for all they do to help us in Caring for Our Elders with the Compassion of Christ.